Patient's question:
Hello! When I have sex with my husband, I always fail to reach orgasm, but when I watch adult videos alone in my room, I get very excited. As long as I gently touch my clitoris, I can reach orgasm. And I always want to do it every day. I am married and have not had children yet. What could be the reason why I can't reach orgasm with my husband but can with my own touch?Doctor's answer:
First, not every sexual encounter leads to an orgasm, and you shouldn't deliberately expect it. The more you try to achieve an orgasm, the less likely it becomes. During sex, don't think about anything—just focus on enjoying the experience. A perfect sexual encounter doesn't necessarily have to include an orgasm. Before having sex, make sure to spend more time on foreplay to increase the secretion of love juice and promote lubrication. It's also recommended to adopt the man-on-top position, as it can be more stimulating for the clitoris.