Here are the ten things you should have known long ago

Author: Zi Hao
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Publish Date: 2005-10-01
Features: Life's Top 10 Obstacles to Avoid! You should have known, and you must know. It's never too late to know, but it's never too late to take action. When you know something you should have known but can't seem to wrap your head around it, you won't do well. When you're clear in your mind but don't act, it's useless. These ten things are like ten sharp swords—they can harm others and even harm yourself. The initiative is entirely in your hands.
Thing 1: You Are Originally a Small Figure
Don't be afraid to admit to yourself deep down: "I am originally a small figure, and I want to enjoy all the joys that belong to a small figure."
Thing 2: No Free Lunches Fall from the Sky
In life, many people secretly yearn for something for nothing—hoping to win the lottery, stumble upon a large sum of money, or get promoted suddenly. But the world doesn't have such easy blessings.
Thing 3: No One Can Sell You a Remedy for Regret
Life has no drafts, and there's no second chance to redo things. There's no medicine to cure regret in the world. What's missed will be lost forever. Therefore, in life, what you think of must be done, and what you didn't think of must be carefully considered.
Thing 4: Not Everyone Plays by the Rules
You can't always stick to your old ways when doing things because not everyone plays by the rules.
Thing 5: Everyone Has a Selfish Side
Everyone, including ourselves, has a selfish side. Broken promises and ingratitude are common. How can it be rare for someone to repay kindness with ingratitude?
Thing 6: Don't Underestimate Anyone
Don't look down on anyone. Everyone has their unique and intelligent qualities. Underestimating others might lead to big trouble someday.
Thing 7: Promotion and Wealth Are Not Everything
Fame and fortune are just external things—brought by neither birth nor death. For us, enjoying life is the most important thing.
Thing 8: A Narrow Path May Be Better Than a Wide Road
Have a unique way of doing things and a distinctive approach to being a person. Then you'll find that compared to the "wide road," the "narrow path" might be easier to walk.
Thing 9: This Person Is Not Your Soulmate
Many people only realize after getting married that their partner isn't right for them. As a result, a marriage ruins two people. In fact, you should have known long ago whether this person was your soulmate.
Thing 10: A Benefactor Isn't Always a Good Person
Don't assume that a benefactor is always a good person. Often, good people don't become benefactors. Why can't you see the obvious truth? Many people envy others for rising to prominence, living a glorious life as a "hero among men," and complain about fate being too unfair, lamenting the many obstacles on their life's path. In reality, everyone can master their destiny and live the life they want. It's just that many things in life are unclear to you, and these are things you should have known long ago.
Many people also have problems in interpersonal relationships. Some are too naive, believing that "friends are like limbs" and "heart-to-heart connections" but ignoring the selfish side of human nature. As a result, they suffer unexpected injuries. Aren't there countless examples in society of friends deceiving them and "familiar faces" taking advantage of their closeness? Some are too opportunistic, looking up to those who are well-dressed and ignoring ordinary people. They think they are cleverer than others, believing everyone is easily fooled. But these people often misjudge things, leading to missed opportunities or unnecessary trouble. Only by clarifying your thinking can you walk smoothly on life's path. I hope readers can take inspiration from this book and navigate their own life's boat to create a happy and wonderful life!