Ten Days of Love: Learn to Swim Before Falling in Love

Author: (American) Valentines et al., translated by Sun Yibing et al.
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Publishing Date: 2006-01-01
Features: A bestseller in the United States in 2003. Understand and improve your romantic IQ to become a high-level player in love. Learn to use romantic IQ to conquer jealousy and anger, achieve emotional fusion, enhance empathy, and resolve conflicts between couples. This book guides people on how to apply IQ techniques in close relationships, making them smarter. The combination of the words "romantic" and "IQ" seems a bit incongruous. But how many well-intentioned, highly educated people are powerless when it comes to handling or understanding relationships? They may know the nuances of scientific theories or the complex techniques of a string quartet, but when faced with romantic relationships, they have to steel themselves. They lack romantic IQ or the quick wit and passionate nature. And these are the very factors that form IQ. Where can one learn these skills? We are almost none of us taught how to handle emotions in school, no one majors in understanding others' feelings, and there are no "specialties" in "solving emotional relationship problems." Once you start dating, you might receive sympathy, support, and advice from friends and parents. But in the end, it's still your own thing to handle.