Patient's question:
I really like my boyfriend, but I've never been able to figure out what he really feels for me—is he also very fond of me? However, when we have sex, he is very willing to perform oral sex on me. I've asked some of my female friends, and they said that this behavior means my boyfriend loves me very much. Their boyfriends sometimes do the same thing, and it's considered a skillful act.What kind of help do I need: What are the techniques for giving a woman oral sex?
Doctor's answer:
Making love is a wonderful thing. If you're not just doing it for release, you should create some conditions and set the mood for it. For example, at night, dim the lights a bit. Both of you should take a bath first, especially the woman, because the female genital structure is more complex with more folds, making it easier to accumulate dirt. So when bathing, pay attention to cleaning the labia majora and minora thoroughly. The man should turn on some music and wait in bed for her. After the woman rinses, she should get used to applying some perfume to her genital area, but don't use too strong or too much perfume, because when the man is performing oral sex on you, his nose is closest to your genital area. If the perfume is too strong, it can easily irritate him. Also, don't apply perfume to the labia, because the scent of your so-called vaginal discharge isn't from perfume. Instead, spray some perfume on your palm and apply it to the pubic hair area and inner thighs. It's also a good idea to lightly mist the area around the clitoris (anus). Prepare two towels, one large and one small. The large towel should be placed on the bed for the woman to lie on, and the small towel is for wiping sweat and water. Place a glass of water by the bed so it's within easy reach when you're thirsty. This way, you won't have to leave the room to get water, interrupting the woman's experience for too long.