Patient's question:
Okay, here is the translation following your instructions:I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. I never wanted to have sex so soon, and we almost broke up. I know I've really hurt him, always making him sad. Last night we had sex, but I didn't bleed at all. I'm very confused, and he said my vaginal opening is very loose. At first, it was a bit painful, but not very painful, and later there was no sensation at all. I remember seeing on TV that it should hurt quite a bit, right? This morning, I still have absolutely no feeling. Am I not a virgin? Should I go to the hospital to check if there's something wrong with me?
If I go to the hospital and ask the doctor to check if I have my hymen, will the doctor feel...
Doctor's answer:
Hello:You can also go to the hospital for a check-up, but the idea that not having a hymen means a woman is no longer a virgin is wrong. Because women may experience hymen rupture during intense exercise, cycling, or other activities, especially if their hymen is very thin. This is actually due to your limited knowledge about female puberty development. Additionally, you should trust each other. Otherwise, your relationship may face problems.
I don’t know if I’ve explained this clearly to you. You can also buy some books on this topic from a bookstore to learn more about it. This will be very helpful for you both. What do you think?
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