Patient's question:
Female, 25 years old, married for about half a year. Due to always being afraid of her first sexual experience, she has not had sexual intercourse until now. Every time her husband touches her vaginal opening, she experiences intense pain, even breaking into a cold sweat all over her body, leading to vaginal spasms and making penetration impossible. She has tried to regulate her emotions, but has never been able to overcome her fear. Now she wants to have a baby, but because she is so afraid, what should she do? The premise is that her husband's foreplay is very sufficient, and her vagina is also wet enough, but she is still afraid of insertion. Is there any way to solve this problem? It's mainly because she is too tense. Can she drink some alcohol or take tranquilizers to control her anxious emotions?Doctor's answer:
Analysis of the condition: Hello, this may be due to your incorrect understanding. First, you need to believe that normal sexual activity will not cause any harm to the body. The female vagina is capable of childbirth, and a baby's head can pass through smoothly. Sexual activity is nothing to worry about.Some people are afraid of the pain of the hymen breaking, misled to believe that it will be extremely severe pain. In reality, it is not that way. Some people feel no pain, while others experience only mild discomfort, which can be tolerated.
Suggestions: Valium is not recommended. If you are accustomed to drinking alcohol, you can have a moderate amount, as it can help relax tension and reduce the perception of pain.
Additionally, if you are truly afraid of the pain of the hymen breaking, you can undergo a surgical incision at the hospital before engaging in sexual activity. This way, there will be no pain at all.