How Women Can Be Happier -- The Wonderful Performance of Spousal Life

Author: Liao Jinze
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Publish Date: 2005-07-01
Features: A true woman should be exquisite in appearance, rich in substance, intelligent and magnanimous, elegant and mature, fashionable yet not trendy, charming yet not flirtatious, classical yet not stiff, amiable yet not casual, reserved yet not introverted, composed and calm. She should be able to turn trivial matters into perfection and handle significant matters without flaw. Whether she is happy or not, only she knows. But if she were to carefully tally her happiness, even the most serious woman might lack the leisure to do so. Truly, women are happy to immerse themselves in the feeling of happiness but rarely willing to think deeply about its origins and past. Feelings influence emotions, especially for women who are so, the quality of life is often determined by how good or bad they feel. As the saying goes: Women need to be nurtured—nurturing their bodies, minds, spirits, and tempers. In marital life, adjusting oneself, cultivating oneself, indulging oneself, protecting oneself, treating oneself well, utilizing oneself, cherishing oneself, and pleasing oneself—to create a sense of happiness for oneself—is something women can achieve with a little thought and time. Narcissism is a disease, but self-pleasure is a blessing. Even in marital life, it remains exciting and enjoyable, with pleasures that are truly indescribable.