When Love Meets Marriage: The Unusual Desires of Ordinary People

Author: Zhang Linwen
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Publish Date: 2005-01-01
Features: Some people believe infidelity is the greatest killer of marriage and love. In reality, infidelity is actually like a pustule at the tip of a pimple—it is not the core inflammation of love. Infidelity is not pollution; what has already been polluted are your heart and your love. Infidelity is merely a way that someone who feels lacking and lost in love seeks for themselves. Ordinary love's true face is always about loving in order to receive love, and taking action towards a lover in order to fulfill a desire. These desires are usually things like physical and emotional support, the warmth of a family, an improvement in financial life, or sexual needs, or even the desire or need to become parents.