Charming Index: Be a 100% charming man: Be a 100% charming man

Author: Jiang Yanlan
Publisher:
Publish Date: 2004-01-01
Features:
Charming Men – Dignified, Money-Making, Successful in Career
Charming Men – Gentle, Considerate, Romantic, Understanding Women
Charming Men – Sweet Words, Generous, with a Touch of Happiness
Responsibility, Inner Strength, Gentleness, Consideration, Career Success – These charms stem from self-cultivation and refinement. Read the "Charming Man Index" and become a charismatic man. You can also be the new "good man" who makes your wife cheer.
Without money, without women – truly a complete tragedy for a man? But what if you only lack one of the two? People rarely focus on how to be a man, while more attention is given to teaching women how to be wives, especially in women's fashion magazines, newspapers, and TV shows. These media lavish space and time, teaching wives how to apply lipstick, draw eyebrows, dress, and decorate their bedrooms.
In the "market" of marriage, many women seek not just a man but a "good man." This so-called "good man" is defined as "dignified, successful in career, and skilled at making money." Traditional education and values lead women to believe it's natural for a husband to be stronger than a wife, pushing them to compare and compete, seeking men with better prospects, greater abilities, and more earning potential. This mindset is understandable. A woman chooses a man, and in doing so, she chooses her life. Isn’t safety a crucial factor?
But once married, the "good man" often disappears, and many women blame men. They enumerate the man’s shortcomings: focusing only on money, neglecting the family, failing to be considerate, let alone romantic. This is already enough to exhaust a man. In modern society, many strong women have emerged, excelling in careers without yielding to men, even surpassing them. At this point, women yearn for a "gentle, considerate, romantic, and understanding man."
For men, it seems even harder to win their wives' cheers. But don’t lose hope—men, it’s actually easy to earn your wife’s praise: If you have your own career or a stable job, work as hard as you cherish love to achieve success in your career. If your wife is stronger than you, you can still be a refined, gentle, family-oriented man.