Patient's question:
Doctor, if your parents were born into a relatively poor family, slightly worse off than those around you, and you yourself have been living with relatives as a "boarder child," will you give them enough pocket money each month when they grow old? That's my own situation. I've just graduated from college, and my previous practice was quite good. Now, my training has a 9-to-5 work schedule, earning 6,500 yuan per month. However, I care a lot about my family background as a "boarder child" living with relatives. For now, I like my hometown, like my family background, and like the business relationships around me. I want to escape everything around me. Do you have any good advice for me?Doctor's answer:
It might be that your parents worked odd jobs outside when you were young, and you grew up in someone else's home, which made you develop a sense of inferiority. It is hoped that you will cultivate self-confidence, pay more attention to your strengths and talents, often associate with cheerful friends, practice their positive and optimistic mindset, face life's disappointments calmly, recognize your parents' good intentions, accept your parents' imperfections, give yourself positive psychological suggestions every day, and strive to transform yourself mentally, facing life with a positive and optimistic attitude.