Heidi's Sexuality Report (Women's Edition)

Author: Xue'er Heidi
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Publish Date: 2002-09-01
Features: Here is a wealth of sexual experiences, completely different from the boastful claims men make about sex. The sexual experiences narrated by these women can precisely turn around women's prejudices and aversion to sex. More importantly, outside the book—you have been invited, after reading and reflecting, to write your own sequel. — Zhang Juanfen, Journalist
Within Heidi's research framework, sex is no longer constrained by the traditional physiological function of reproduction. Sex is "self-care and self-compassion," "shared intimacy," and even the source of women's pleasure, climax, satisfaction, and experience. — He Chunrui, Associate Professor of English Department
This book attempts to present the private whispers hidden behind masks, exploring the truth to reveal layers of myths and helping us better understand the sensations of our bodies. But the so-called truth may not exist; in myths, apart from the traces of patriarchy, there is nothing but emptiness. It is just like what pop singer Madonna said: the elements of desire itself are layers of masks. — Pinglu, Writer and Literary Critic
In this book, I aim to present female sexual behavior (male sexual behavior will be introduced in another volume), which refers to the sexual behaviors that have been ignored or suppressed by the fertility models dominating various societies for many centuries. Female climax is an easily achievable sexual state for most women during masturbation. However, in the known definition of sex, the sexual stimulation—clitoral stimulation—that most women reach climax through is often excluded. This means, in their view, either female climax is less important than male climax, or women should strive to achieve climax through the same stimulation that brings male climax—vaginal intercourse. The fact is, most women are more likely to reach climax through some form of clitoral stimulation (almost all women can easily reach climax through clitoral masturbation). This study reveals that only a few women reach climax through "sexual intercourse," while most women merely pretend to reach climax in the presence of men. So, how can women achieve self-realization, and how can sexual behavior become more equal and diverse? First, we need to have information. The book lists the testimonies of thousands of women from different countries. They not only describe when they reach climax and how they experience it but also share their experiences with sex, their likes and dislikes. This information is unique to this book. To obtain this information, I spent years extensively consulting women's inner thoughts and experiences.