Patient's question:
Children are usually fine, but recently, some teachers and parents have mentioned that the child has been hitting others at school. When asked, the child said that if others hurt him, he would want to hit back to suppress his emotions. Is this related to the father's scolding when he used to do bad things in the past? What should we do?Doctor's answer:
According to the description, the child has conflicts with others and wants to hit to suppress their emotions, which is greatly related to family education. It is recommended that parents pay attention to communicating more with the child to understand their true thoughts, and avoid using force. The father has the responsibility to teach the child to act with principles, to be punished for making mistakes, and to guide the child to face the difficulties they encounter. They should suppress their actions. However, they should be tolerant and patient, and should not be arrogant or use force. The above suggestions are for the issue of "the child is usually fine, but recently both teachers and parents have said the child is..." It is hoped that it will be helpful to you. Wishing you health!