Patient's question:
My child is 9 years old. He has a bad temper. After going to bed every morning, he is very unhappy. Even the simplest tasks like getting dressed and eating breakfast are a hassle. It feels like his mood is always, and he doesn't listen to reason. I don't know why he often hits his younger sister. When he comes home from school, he looks very angry. He is also quite mischievous at school and doesn't concentrate during tutoring sessions. The teachers have no idea what to do either. As a parent, I don't know what to do either. I feel very desperate. What kind of help do I expect: I hope everyone can give some advice.Doctor's answer:
This parent saw your situation, and I knew how heartbroken parents can be. My younger brother was the same way—he was very aggressive and disobedient. My mom couldn’t hit him anymore, and she couldn’t scold him either, but he just wouldn’t listen. Later, we didn’t see a psychologist, but used love to guide him. Actually, they’re not really immature; outwardly, they may seem aggressive, but inwardly, they are still very filial. So, in your daily life, you should pay more attention to him and communicate with him more often. Now, communication is the best way to solve problems. Personally, I believe there’s no need to take him to a psychologist—you are the best therapist for him. Give it a try. Communicate with him more, show more care, and let him feel an unstoppable emotion.