New Century Parenting Series - Enhancing Children's Social Skills

Author: Luo Hongjuan
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Publish Date: 2001-10-01
Features: Have you ever listened to what your child says? Children whose words are not listened to by their parents may become unable to talk to their parents, leading to a lack of mutual understanding between parents and children. When your child is talking to you, put aside what you are doing and listen to them wholeheartedly. If you have opinions in the middle, don’t just blurt out: "No! You should first listen to your child’s words before expressing your own opinions. Parents who complain, "My child never talks to me!" are mostly due to poor listening attitudes. Parents should pay attention: When your child is speaking, don’t rush to judge whether it’s "right" or "wrong." Of course, children can’t help but say it once and still feel like they need to say more. In this case, as long as you listen to your child’s confessions with care, you can understand them. At this time, you can say to your child: "Don’t you have more to tell me?"