The Ultimate Art of Chinese Etiquette - Family Bookshelf

Author: Li Zongwu
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Publish Date: 2007-01-01
Features: Throughout history, those who have achieved great success have not only possessed true talent and knowledge but also deeply understood the ways of dealing with others. It can be said that the essence of Chinese strategic wisdom and the art of dealing with people have been concentratedly reflected in them. The golden law of success has also been practiced and applied by generations, yielding tremendous results. Today, the book The Art of Chinese Dealing with People compiles insightful views and writings derived from the practical experiences of successful individuals, allowing those who yearn for success but lack the method to see the laws of happiness and push open the door to success.
The classics left by the sages of past generations for the benefit of future generations are countless. Some excel in rigorous and well-structured treatises, while others win through concise and profound maxims rich in philosophy. Some are philosophical explorations of the vicissitudes of life after navigating the political world, while others are works of sharp wit and satire, blending sorrow and humor to critique society. When selecting books and articles, the editors focused on the following aspects:
First, the authors are role models of success, having written timeless classics based on their own experiences and insights into success. For example, Guiguzi, the pioneer of the strategic school; Zeng Guofan, the most prominent "Zhongxing" minister of modern times; Yan Zhitui, an outstanding litterateur during the Southern and Northern Dynasties; and Li Zongwu, a brilliant and humorous talent. Their classic works, which have shone through the trials of time, are revered by generations as "books of life wisdom," "treasures of governance," and "laws of success." Their unique insights into self-cultivation, interpersonal relationships, ideal realms, as well as their strategies for power and governance, are highly valued and loved by people from all walks of life due to their strong practicality, enlightenment, and reference value.
Second, timeless works with classic theoretical and practical systems. For example, the classical masterpiece One Hundred Adages on Enduring Tolerance selected in this book is filled with profound wisdom, interspersed with historical anecdotes. It covers the theory, function, and key points of tolerance, as well as stories and practices related to tolerance in history, forming a highly operational theoretical and practical system centered on tolerance. Its readability and engaging nature inspire readers to gain wisdom from concise maxims and learn from historical stories, thereby bettering their ways of dealing with people, fostering harmonious coexistence, and achieving a fulfilling life.
Third, classic works that are easy for readers to apply in practice, with strong reference and operational value. For example, the philosophical treatise The Whispers of Sorrow, which covers governance, self-cultivation, and handling affairs. As long as readers follow the advice in the treatise and adapt it to their own situations, they will undoubtedly benefit greatly, with immediate effects both internally and externally. Many of the selected works even embody all three qualities, truly being classics among classics.
In summary, The Art of Chinese Dealing with People emphasizes both theory and the explanation of practical methods, making it simple, clear, and effective. It encompasses the wisdom of dealing with people, self-cultivation, nurturing character, governance, family management, business, and wealth accumulation. It can be considered a treasure for governing the world, dealing with people, advising the world, and awakening the world.
As a selection, this book prioritizes quality over quantity, depth over perfection, and practicality over ornamentation. It uses classic examples from ancient and modern times to highlight insights into life. To help readers better grasp the essence of these classics, we have specially included translations that respect the original style and thought-provoking annotations for reference. As long as readers follow these laws and secrets and apply them flexibly, they will achieve twice the result with half the effort, gain more fruitful outcomes with minimal input, and thus walk more steadily and attain greater happiness throughout their lives.
Different perspectives lead to different paths, but the desire for readers to benefit from opening the book remains the same. There may be omissions and biases in this book, and we welcome criticism and corrections from experts and readers alike.