Patient's question:
I am a 28-year-old man. I like drinking water, but I also enjoy urinating frequently. During sex with my wife, I lose my erection. However, I often have sexual urges, and this happens whenever we have sex. My foreskin is slightly overgrown. I visited a doctor at the hospital, who said it wasn't serious and told me not to have surgery. Please tell me if this is a problem. My sex duration is also quite short, only about 10 minutes. I have been married for more than four years, and during these four years, I have noticed this issue. There are no specialized urology hospitals in my area, and I also don't have the time to travel to a big city to see a doctor. Thank you, doctor. What is this problem?Doctor's answer:
Hello, there are many reasons that can cause erectile dysfunction. In terms of treatment, you can follow the following principles, which may have a certain effect:1. Abstain from masturbation, moderate sexual activity, and avoid intense sexual desires. Avoid using repeated intercourse to prolong the second sexual act, as this is harmful to health and should not be done.
2. The emotional state before sexual intercourse greatly affects the speed of ejaculation. To prevent premature ejaculation, it is important to avoid worries, excitement, and tension. Build confidence and cooperate with treatment.
3. The female partner should be understanding, comforting, and avoid blaming or threatening. Otherwise, it may have the opposite effect and hinder recovery.
4. Do not casually or excessively take aphrodisiacs.
5. There is no uniform standard for the duration of ejaculation. Generally, it is considered to be 2 to 6 minutes, but ejaculation within a shorter time is also normal. As long as both partners feel satisfied, it is a success. The duration of time should not be used as a measure.