I want to ask why having sex completely cannot have a climax feeling, first age

Patient's question:

Patient Gender: Female
Patient Age: 32
I want to ask why I can't have an orgasm during sex. First, about age.

Doctor's answer:

Actually, at your age, it is naturally a period with relatively high libido. The most important reason for low libido is still due to poor sexual experiences. The sexual techniques of both partners also play a significant role. Orgasm is not achieved through penetration; it is created. Some women may experience orgasm from the very beginning, while others may never experience it in their entire lives.
It is recommended to increase foreplay before sexual activity. Make sure to gently massage sensitive areas to increase the secretion of lubricating fluid. The clitoris is the most sensitive part of a woman's body. Stimulating the clitoris more can enhance lubrication and lead to better pleasure.
At the same time, it is suggested to adopt the male-on-top position, as this can provide more stimulation to the clitoris, making it easier to reach orgasm and experience pleasure.
When there is pleasure and orgasm, there is a greater likelihood of enjoying sexual activity. Enjoyment leads to more pleasure and orgasm. Enjoyment of sex increases the secretion of lubricating fluid, which in turn makes sex more enjoyable, leading to pleasure and potentially orgasm. This is a mutually reinforcing cycle.