Patient's question:
Due to having seen my parents having sex as a child, unable to resist curiosity, I developed the habit of masturbation at an early age (12 years old), which resulted in physical development defects: being physically frail and lacking masculinity. After entering university, I also faced punishment: due to a lack of interests and hobbies, my interpersonal interactions were hindered.Doctor's answer:
Hello, according to what you said, there are multiple reasons for your timidity, weakness, and fear of conflict. 1. It is related to your family, such as excessive indulgence or strict discipline from parents. 2. Excessive pressure from study or work; low self-esteem due to past self-esteem injuries, and so on.Psychological guidance: In fact, it is a good thing that you can see these shortcomings in yourself. At least you can recognize yourself. I suggest you learn to dare to express your own opinions, train yourself, and temper yourself. Speak more of your ideas to others, even if you are wrong, it doesn’t matter, as long as you dare to speak, naturally, the pressure will be resolved. At the same time, you need to learn to take responsibility. When you can independently take responsibility, you will truly overcome yourself. Wish you become a real man!