Patient's question:
I have been suffering from ED and premature ejaculation for two years. I also took medication at your clinic. Later, the examination revealed ED and poor erection. I felt better while taking the medication, but then it returned to its original state. I can't get hard during sex, but I can get erect when my girlfriend touches me. It's not lasting, and I orgasm without inserting.Doctor's answer:
You're only 20 years old. You know what impotence and premature ejaculation are. It's probably just that you haven't had regular sexual activity, lack sexual experience and skills, and the tension and anxiety during sex affected your senses, making it hard to perform satisfactorily. This kind of situation is very common, and it's mostly like you—introverted and prone to overthinking. We only take advantage of people like you. A man without sexual experience is like a beginner learning to drive for the first time. He'll definitely feel tense and anxious when getting into the car. It takes three to six months of learning under a coach's guidance to possibly learn to drive. Sex doesn't have anyone teaching you, and you're facing a real woman with her own independent thoughts. This kind of tension is much greater than learning to drive. Sex is a two-person effort, and to learn and improve, there needs to be harmony and performance, which naturally requires both partners to practice together to improve. Relying on medication to solve the problem alone is impossible. Of course, you can take medication, but it only improves physical strength. At your age, you're full of energy, able to eat and play, so do you think physical strength is an issue? A man can have a normal life and complete a sexual act with more than enough energy!You must go to a regular hospital for treatment. I know a few hospitals: Wuhan Third Hospital, Wuhan Union Hospital, and Wuhan Medical Rescue Center.