Patient's question:
Can a father and wife have oral sex?Doctor's answer:
Oral Sex Techniques for WomenTo appreciate his pleasure
Rotate your tongue to stimulate the tip of his penis
Slowly suck and move your throat in a rhythmic motion
He will undoubtedly be completely devoted to you
In ancient times, places like the "Ying Chun Pavilion" and "Yi Hong Yuan" were where men lingered, forgetting to leave. Why are wildflowers better than the wife at home? Besides being able to be cute and charming, what techniques do they use to make men abandon their families? They are either versatile or very skilled at pleasing and encouraging men, especially those who are down on their luck. Men who enter these places with their heads down in despair leave with newfound confidence. The most important thing is that they are highly skilled in sexual techniques and keep things exciting—men won’t be able to help but lose control!
The technique is especially important in oral sex; it’s the way to make him cherish you more. When performing oral sex, you must have the mindset, "His penis is so adorable, I want to kiss it," otherwise, there will be only pain, not pleasure.
The highest level of oral sex involves using your tongue to lick around the tip of his penis and swirling it with your tongue. When you encounter the grooves, gently nibble with your teeth to give him a tingling sensation.
The penis is made up of several tissues, with the seams being particularly sensitive. Start from the base and move upward, occasionally rolling it between your lips. Remember, the tongue’s motion should be "from bottom to top"—don’t overlook this technique or waste your efforts.
When caressing the penis, slowly suck it into your throat, wrapping the base with your tongue. This mimics the sensation of penetration and, combined with throat contractions, creates a vivid sexual image!
Men also orgasm during oral sex. When this happens, gently pull the foreskin down and push the tip of his penis to your lips to satisfy him.
Women who excel at oral sex not only stroke the penis but also lick the scrotum or anus—completeness is key to success. Finally, be warned that licking the urethra may feel pleasurable but can easily cause urethritis, so avoid it.
Avoid smoking at least an hour before oral sex, as the smell ruins the experience. Also, don’t drink too much water, as it makes saliva too thin. If you’re really thirsty, opt for something refreshing like winter melon tea.
### Oral Sex Techniques for Men
When a woman finds a man with exceptional oral sex skills, she feels like she’s struck gold. She won’t easily give up that man. She knows such talent is hard to come by and wouldn’t share it with her friends, lest her secret become the talk of the town. So remember, most men have sex, and many are good at it, but those with outstanding oral skills are more likely to win hearts.
Most women worry about their bodies, even if they sleep with the most elegant woman in the world. So, don’t forget to tell your partner she’s beautiful—though cliché, it always works. Tell her which part of her you love most, and be open with her to build trust and encourage her to relax for you.
Now, take a close look at what’s before you—it’s beautiful, isn’t it? Nothing compares to the vagina in showcasing a woman’s unique charm. I’ve seen many vaginas, each with different sizes, shapes, and colors. Some fold inward like a little girl’s, while others have thick, soft labia that stand out invitingly. Some are nestled among dense pubic hair, while others are covered in fine, transparent hair. Appreciate your partner’s uniqueness and tell her you love it.
As everyone knows, women talk more than men, and this doesn’t change during sex. They react strongly to words, so the more you communicate, the more easily she’ll get turned on. When stroking her vagina, don’t forget to talk to her, especially about what you’re doing.
Look at it again. Gently part the outer labia to reveal the inner ones. If you’re up for it, lightly lick them. Then slowly pull back the upper part of her vagina until you see her clitoris (or mons pubis). The size of a woman’s clitoris varies, just like penises, but it doesn’t matter for her ability to climax. It only means the part hidden under the hood is larger. When touching a woman’s vagina, make sure your fingers are wet—either with saliva or her own fluids. Always keep them wet, especially when touching her clitoris. Since the clitoris doesn’t produce its own fluids, it’s extremely sensitive. Dry fingers can easily hurt it.
But don’t rush to touch her clitoris yet—go step by step. Before she gets too excited, her clitoris is delicate.
Slowly approach her vagina. The inner thighs are the softest spot. Lick and kiss it, drawing shapes with your tongue. Get as close as possible, then slowly pull back to make her want more. Now lick the folds between her thighs, burying your nose in her hair. Use your tongue to stroke her lips, but don’t push down. When she starts tensing her body and lifting her legs to get closer, you can proceed: press your tongue against her lips. Start with gentle kisses, then gradually increase pressure, using your tongue to separate them. Once fully open, move your tongue up and down her vagina. Gently spread her legs. Remember to be gentle in everything you do. Licking her feels incredible and can stir her passion, as her clitoris needs more attention now.
So don’t hesitate. Check if her clitoris has hardened and poked through the hood. If it has, lick it. If not, it’s still waiting to be discovered. Place your tongue at the top of her vagina to feel for the clitoris. You might not find it immediately, but even if you can’t locate this little pearl, you can bring it out by licking the skin covering it. Gradually increase pressure and gently push it back into the hood.
Gently part the outer labia and quickly flick your tongue against her clitoris, whether it’s covered or not. When she starts tensing and approaches climax, form a circle with your lips and hold her clitoris in your mouth. Begin to suck slowly and observe her reactions. If she can take it, increase the pressure. If she loves it, go even harder. Follow her rhythm—move with her if her hips arch upward. Keep your warm mouth on her clitoris as long as possible. At this point, most women will say the same thing: "Don’t stop, don’t stop!" Don’t laugh—it’s for a reason. Many men stop too soon, like when playing the flute—take your time and learn.
You also have another trick to enhance her pleasure. While she enjoys your sucking her clitoris, insert your fingers.
Throughout the process, she’ll welcome it. Besides the clitoris, a woman has another highly sensitive area—the top of her vagina, which is where your fingers should rub repeatedly. Since your penis is far away, your fingers get the job done. Use two fingers—one too thin, three too thick—so you can go deeper. Make sure your fingers are wet to avoid irritation. Slowly slide them in, gradually increasing speed with a rhythmic motion. Match her pace and listen to her breathing. She’ll guide you. If you suck her clitoris with your mouth while rubbing her vagina with your fingers, the stimulation is far greater than just using your penis alone. So, she’ll likely reach a more satisfying and intense climax.
If you’re unsure, observe her reactions. Every woman has different signs of climax—some nipples harden during arousal, while others only during orgasm. Your partner might blush or start trembling. Knowing her tells you how to be a more caring lover. When she climaxes, don’t release her clitoris—hold on throughout the process. As she cools down from the first wave, gently lick downward, pressing your lips to her clitoris while your tongue moves in and out of her vagina. If your fingers are still there, move together—always gently. Her body will be extremely sensitive. If you do it right, you might bring her to multiple climaxes.
She’ll stay with you as long as you want. Some women also enjoy having their anuses played with while their vaginas are being licked.
After she climaxes, don’t leave her alone. Continue with sweet words and caresses, especially her breasts, until she’s completely relaxed. Men can sleep soundly after orgasm, but women naturally enjoy their lovers’ affection in the short time after sex.
——Oral sex can be the most passionate part of sexual experience, but it requires effort. Don’t rush, pay attention to your partner’s signals, and most importantly, enjoy it yourself.