Patient's question:
Why doesn't my girlfriend have an orgasm during sex?Why does it feel more intense when I touch and kiss her, but there's no sensation when my penis is inserted? With my first boyfriend, she experienced pleasure, but now she doesn't feel anything. She hates sex, and even touching her clitoris doesn't give her a reaction. What should we do?
Doctor's answer:
Hello, female sexual climax is divided into clitoral climax and G-spot climax, which are two different types of experiences.The clitoris is located above the urethral opening, with significant individual size variations, ranging from rice grain to finger-sized (diameter 0.3-1 cm). Its structure is similar to the male penis, and it has an erection function during sexual arousal. It is an extremely sensitive organ, and simple stimulation can trigger sexual climax. It is also the most commonly stimulated area for many women during masturbation. However, during sexual intercourse, when fully aroused, it may be hidden due to the congestion and enlargement of the labia majora and minora. Therefore, the penis cannot directly stimulate the clitoris during intercourse; it only receives indirect stimulation from surrounding tissues, which is sufficient to induce sexual climax for the highly sensitive clitoris. In certain specific sexual positions (such as rear entry), a man can also stimulate the clitoris with his hand, making it easier for the woman to reach climax.
Female G-spot climax is a modern discovery. The G-spot refers to a sensitive area on the anterior wall of the vagina. Although there is no clear anatomical evidence to support it, studies have found that stimulating the G-spot can induce female climax. Moreover, this type of climax is different from clitoral climax. During sexual intercourse, the rear entry position is easier to stimulate the G-spot, which is why some women can only enjoy climax in this position.
The awareness of the female G-spot has added color to the beauty of sexual life. Various pleasant sexual experiences can maintain the attractiveness of sexual life and add momentum to a fulfilling love life.