Patient's question:
Detailed medical condition and consultation purpose: My sexual function is not very good, my erections are not very strong, and I cannot last long. However, both my ex-wife and I were relatively satisfied. My current girlfriend's ex-husband had high sexual skills and ability, so our sexual life never satisfied her, and she never had an orgasm. In her heart, she always thinks that her sexual life with her ex-husband was very harmonious. Now that I have been taking sexual medication, the effect is quite good, but she is unwilling to accept me anymore. She thinks that taking medication is still not good enough. I would like to ask the expert whether her sexual psychology is normal?History of previous diagnoses and treatments, as well as their effectiveness: My sexual function problems have been treated
Doctor's answer:
What is lost is always beautiful. This is a form of nostalgia in human nature. You should not deliberately compare her former husband in terms of sex life, as this comparison can cause harm to both of you. I guess you are much older than her, which is why you have these concerns and worries. These worries and concerns increase your psychological burden and may even weaken your sexual ability. While sex is important, the key is to cultivate emotions; when emotions are harmonious, sexual life will naturally be harmonious. Conversely, even if your sexual ability is strong, sexual life will not be harmonious.