Patient's question:
I just got married. My husband and I have sex, but every time it doesn't last long—usually only 4 or 5 minutes before it's over. Many times, he leaves me feeling quite unsatisfied because he loses his erection right when he starts to get excited. Is this premature ejaculation? He says he becomes too excited the moment he enters. What should I do?Doctor's answer:
When he is in this state, never him, use harsh words, as he is likely feeling just as bad himself. We women should comfort him well, saying it's okay, maybe he's just too tired, and that he will definitely be better after resting well next time. This gives him new hope, and perhaps he really will satisfy you next time.