Patient's question:
I have been married to my husband for nearly a year, but we still haven't had a complete intimate relationship, which makes me very frustrated. I hope to get a timely reply from an expert.Every time we are together, I feel very uncomfortable, so I have to stop in the middle. My husband suspects whether his penis is too small, but after reading the article just now, I found that it is within the normal range.
I would like to ask, if we consider it from the perspective of a small penis, which position would be easier to succeed?
First follow-up question: We are both civil servants, and our jobs aren't particularly busy. My husband belongs to...
Doctor's answer:
Hello, there are many positions for sexual activity, the following are for reference, and can be chosen based on the circumstances of both parties.Doggy Style, also known as the rear entry position, is relatively easy to achieve. The woman can rest on her hands and knees or her abdomen on the bed, while the man is positioned behind her. He can rest on his knees, or sometimes both feet on the ground. Depending on personal preference, the man's legs can be placed inside or outside the woman's legs. Many couples prefer the woman's legs to be together on the inside, as this allows for more friction between the penis and the vagina.
In this position, the man has more freedom in thrusting, while the woman's movements are relatively restricted. The solution is to place a thick cushion under her knees. If she is in the abdomen-on-bed position, using a lower bed can also help, as it gives her pelvis and hips more freedom. The rear entry position offers both partners a new experience, as the angle of insertion is different, making it relatively more convenient and intensifying the sensation. Most men admit that they cannot last long in this position, as the stimulation is often too intense to resist. Therefore, this position is often saved for the later stages of sexual activity.
Rear Entry with Forward Lean
This position is somewhat similar to the woman on top rear entry. The woman straddles the man, facing away from him. At this point, the woman leans forward as much as possible, allowing for a pleasant sensation. Some women even enjoy wrapping their arms around the man's legs to control the angle of insertion. Sometimes it may cause slight discomfort, but adjusting the position can resolve it. If adjusted well, this feeling cannot be given by other forms of intimacy.