Patient's question:
I'm currently dating a boyfriend. Every time we meet, he wants to move in with me, but I really don't want to. He says I don't love him, or else why wouldn't I want to live with him? I believe I do love him, and now my family knows too. We plan to get married this year. The first time we had sex was particularly painful.What kind of help do I want: How can men and women make it less painful?
Doctor's answer:
Hello, during the first sexual experience, there may be a sense of pain when the hymen breaks, but this pain is generally bearable. As long as the male is gentle and engages in more foreplay and caressing movements, it won't be too painful—there's no need to be afraid. In reality, both men and women's first experiences are deeply significant. For women, it is very profound, but for men, it is equally so. During the first time, it is even more important to pay attention to foreplay and not rush right from the start. Perhaps due to nervousness, there might be some mild pain.