Am I frigid?

Patient's question:

I have a girlfriend, and I'm not afraid to say it. We've had sex too. We have a good relationship, but I don't know why I don't like it when she initiates intimacy. Sometimes when we're shopping, she'll deliberately grab my hand to touch her breasts. Other times, she'll sneak up on me and touch me down there, or she'll want to talk about some sexual topics. When I take her home, near her neighborhood, it's our habit to kiss before leaving, and at this moment, she often hopes I'll reach inside to touch her breasts. I find it strange that every time this happens, I feel quite. I wonder if other men would feel very excited and turned on at this point? But I don't feel that way myself. I enjoy these moments

Doctor's answer:

Have you had a habit of masturbation before? It may belong to sexual dysfunction, which is mainly manifested in the following four aspects:
　　A. Sexual desire disorder: Including hypoactive sexual desire, sexual aversion, and hypersexuality.
　　B. Penile erection disorder: Including priapism, weak erection, and abnormal erection.
　　C. Sexual intercourse disorder: Including sexual intercourse syncope, sexual intercourse aphasia, sexual intercourse hysteria, sudden death during intercourse, sexual intercourse phobia, and coitus interruptus.
　　D. Ejaculation disorder: Including premature ejaculation, nocturnal emission, anejaculation, retrograde ejaculation, painful ejaculation, and hematospermia.
Although these four aspects can appear individually or simultaneously, they are collectively referred to as mixed sexual dysfunction due to common pathogenic factors.
Additionally, sexual dysfunction can be caused by sexual deviations, such as homosexuality, fetishism, exhibitionism, voyeurism, pedophilia, and transvestism. Sexual dysfunction caused by mental illness includes paraphilia, sexual delusion, and sadism.
Therefore, for your situation, it is recommended that you do not put too much pressure on yourself psychologically, relax, and face sexual life correctly. If necessary, you can consult a psychologist.