Does a man also have a low libido?

Patient's question:

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"I and my husband have had very little sexual activity in the past two or three years. It's always me who initiates, and he only gets interested then. Sometimes it's over in just a few minutes. I never bring up the topic of sex, yet he's never once initiated it. In the past six months, I haven't mentioned it even once, yet we lie in bed and hug and kiss each other affectionately. But he's never once asked for sex. Six months have passed, and we haven't had any sexual activity at all. It's really not normal. My friend says that even if a man has an affair, he still wouldn't want to. Besides, our relationship is very good. Also, he works very hard and is under a lot of stress. It seems he might have prostatitis and excessive foreskin. Could these things be related? Even if he's busy, he can't not want it once, right? It's just too..."

Doctor's answer:

When men experience sexual issues, in addition to ruling out physical causes, it's also important to consider whether there are psychological or social factors, such as whether they are under particularly high stress recently, encountering dissatisfaction at work, or having emotional disturbances related to sexual life.
Regardless, you should not complain harshly in words. Instead, you should express your feelings of disappointment to your husband and guide him to share his inner emotions. If there are any issues, they should be treated promptly.

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