Patient's question:
I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 4 years. A few days ago, we had sex for the first time. For the previous 3 years, I had been pleasuring him with my hands. This time, we had sex for the first time, but neither of us was happy. He said he didn't feel any pleasure at all. We tried many different positions, but still nothing. I didn't feel much pleasure either. In the following days, we had sex several more times, but still no pleasure. He also didn't climax. I think this is because my hand movements were too forceful, so it wasn't tight enough when we had sex, and he likes that tight feeling, which is why he didn't feel anything. What should we do in this situation? Is there any method to improve it?Doctor's answer:
During sexual activity, if the penis is not very hard, it may be a symptom of erectile dysfunction. Erectile dysfunction is divided into psychological erectile dysfunction and organic erectile dysfunction. Organic erectile dysfunction mainly includes vascular, neurological, endocrine, diabetic, and other types.