Patient's question:
Hello experts: When I have sex with my girlfriend, my penis often takes a long time to get hard. Sometimes, even after it gets hard, it becomes soft again after a short while. Sometimes, if there's a pause during the act, it might also become soft. However, the first time we did it, it was very hard and stayed that way until the end. I'm wondering if I have a disease or a psychological issue. I hope the experts can help me. Thank you!Additional question: I actually think it's because I'm very tired and exhausted, but I still have work and can't afford to stay home and rest. Maybe there's also a psychological issue. I've also been very suspicious of my girlfriend.
Doctor's answer:
There's a saying that goes, "The bigger the heart, the bigger the world." Conversely, when a person focuses on things that are too small and trivial, it's difficult for them to open their heart and constantly be troubled by things that others might not even consider problems, let alone walking into a dead end. An old saying also goes, "Don't force things into a corner," meaning don't go down a dead-end path.