Patient's question:
What should I do if my wife has low libido?Doctor's answer:
A simpler approach involves: You should start by addressing her emotional blocks. If possible, entrust the child to your parents or relatives for the entire day. After dropping the child off in the morning, you can arrange activities she enjoys, such as: shopping, watching movies, or visiting a place that holds special significance for both of you. The key is to help her relax and gradually create a romantic atmosphere. Find ways to make her willing to talk about intimate issues with you. Success in this part entirely depends on whether you can truly be patient. You must remain calm and not rush, guiding her to reveal the root of her problems so you can address them effectively.A more complex approach: You need to be prepared for a long-term effort. Since she dislikes physical contact with you, you should avoid it (only with perseverance and determination can you guide her, the mother of your child, toward where you want to go). After about a month, you can start turning the tables by saying things like: "I really want to, but I know you don’t. I truly love you, and I’m willing to endure this physical suffering for you." And so on. Then, try to bring this up every two weeks. During this time, seize every opportunity to gently ask if she feels a sense of guilt or reluctance, slowly uncovering her true thoughts or reasons. In this part, it’s crucial not to rush, as it may easily backfire.