Patient's question:
Patient Gender: I had normal foreplay with my girlfriend last night when we were having sex, but when I was in the middle of caressing her, she suddenly asked a question that wasn't embarrassing. After that, my penis gradually became soft, and even when she gave me a blowjob, it didn't get erect. I felt a numbness in the head of my penis, and it seemed quite cold, as if there were waves of cold air blowing directly from the head of my penis to my anus. I was so frustrated that I couldn't sleep for a long time. But when it was almost dawn, my penis suddenly got erect, and we had sex again. What could be the reason for this? Do I have a disease?History of previous diagnoses and treatments, as well as their effectiveness
Doctor's answer:
Hello, impotence and premature ejaculation are both types of sexual dysfunction, but they have fundamental differences. Impotence refers to the inability to achieve or maintain an erection sufficient for sexual intercourse when there is a sexual desire. It can also refer to an erection that is present but not firm enough to sustain intercourse, leading to difficulty or inability to complete sexual activity. On the other hand, premature ejaculation is a sexual dysfunction where the penis is inserted into the vagina, but the female has not yet reached orgasm, and the male's sexual intercourse time is shorter than 5 minutes, resulting in early ejaculation and sexual disharmony.If a couple has not had sexual intercourse for a long time, the first time may be quicker due to increased penile sensitivity and a sense of sexual hunger, which can lead to premature ejaculation. This is normal. Most cases of premature ejaculation are caused by psychological factors, such as anxiety or tension, which make it difficult to control the reflex action of ejaculation.
It is recommended that you identify the underlying cause and seek appropriate treatment.