Patient's question:
Today was the first time I had sex with my wife. Previously, I mostly masturbated almost every day. I didn't know how much time passed each time, but I would usually touch myself for about 30 seconds or 1 to 2 minutes before ejaculating. I usually masturbated once a day, sometimes twice. I felt very sensitive.Today, I had my first time with my wife, and we did kissing and touching. My penis was very hard, but we hadn’t entered yet—it was still outside, and I suddenly felt like I couldn’t control my sperm and it came out. Then I got hard again for the second time. But it quickly went soft.
Normally, after the first time I masturbate, I can stay hard for a long time before ejaculating. But when having sex with my wife, the second time she helped me get hard, it went soft immediately. What could be the reason?
I usually urinate frequently, but I don’t have any other symptoms. Could it be prostatitis or something else? How should I take care of it? I’m in a hurry. My wife isn’t satisfying me.
Doctor's answer:
Hello, this situation should be related to various factors such as personal psychological factors, kidney deficiency, or high sensitivity of the glans. You can try using a condom during sexual activity. If necessary, you can take Jin Suo Gu Jing Wan for treatment.As everyone knows, male dysfunction can cause significant harm to patients, so it is important to seek treatment as soon as possible. In daily life, pay attention to dietary issues, and maintain a light diet, avoiding spicy foods. Additionally, regular follow-up visits can be scheduled if necessary.