Patient's question:
Patient Gender: FemalePatient Age: 32
I want to ask why I cannot achieve an orgasm during sexual activity. First of age.
Doctor's answer:
Actually, at your age, it is naturally a period of high libido. The main reason for low libido is still due to poor sexual experiences. The sexual techniques of both partners also play a significant role. Orgasm is not achieved through penetration; it is created through effort. Some women may experience orgasm from the very beginning, while others may never experience it in their lifetime.It is recommended to increase foreplay before sexual activity, focusing on more massages of sensitive areas to enhance lubrication. The clitoris is the most sensitive part of a woman's body. Stimulating the clitoris more can promote lubrication and enhance the feeling of pleasure. At the same time, it is suggested to adopt the male-on-top position, as it can stimulate the clitoris more effectively, making it easier to reach orgasm and experience pleasure.
When there is pleasure and orgasm, there is a greater likelihood of enjoying sexual activity. Enjoyment leads to more pleasure and orgasm. Enjoyment of sex increases secretion, and more secretion leads to better lubrication, which in turn enhances enjoyment, pleasure, and the potential for orgasm. This is a mutually reinforcing cycle.