Wondering why sex can't feel like an orgasm at all

Patient's question:

Patient Gender: Female
Patient Age: 32
I want to ask why I can't have an orgasm during sex. First, about age.

Doctor's answer:

Actually, at your age, it is a period when sexual desire is relatively high. The most important reason for low libido is still due to poor sexual experiences. The sexual techniques of both partners also play a significant role. Orgasm is not achieved through penetration; it is created. Some women may experience orgasm from the very beginning, while others may never experience it in their lifetime.
It is recommended to increase foreplay before sexual activity. Make sure to massage sensitive areas more to increase the secretion of love fluid. The clitoris is the most sensitive part of a woman's body. Stimulating the clitoris more can promote lubrication and enhance the feeling of pleasure.
At the same time, it is suggested to adopt the male-on-top position, as this can stimulate the clitoris more effectively, making it easier to reach orgasm and experience pleasure.
When there is pleasure and orgasm, there is a greater likelihood of enjoying sexual activity. Enjoyment leads to more pleasure and orgasm. Enjoyment of sex increases the secretion of fluids, which enhances lubrication, making it easier to enjoy sex, experience pleasure, and reach orgasm. This is a mutually reinforcing cycle.