Patient's question:
I work at a foreign company and usually work very hard. I have completed all my tasks well, and my boss is also very satisfied with me. Some people seem to have some opinions about me and always talk about me behind my back. I don't pay much attention to it, but it still makes me feel uncomfortable. How can I deal with envious and jealous people?Doctor's answer:
Ignore them and don't interact with them. Generally, such jealous people will express their jealousy towards you when many people are present. Their words will be bitter and unpleasant, and anyone with good eyesight can tell it's jealousy. But basically, no one will openly admit it, and there might even be people watching the drama unfold. If you react at this moment, won't you just become part of the spectacle? Ignore this person and directly engage in pleasant conversations with others. Give them an opportunity to back down gracefully. Find other friends who get along well with you to help you, offer them some benefits, and work hard to be polite and build a good relationship with them.