Beijing Etiquette

Author: Cui Jinsheng
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Publish Date: 2003-12-01
Features: The etiquette discussed in this book is indeed the etiquette of the past, through which we can understand the customs and traditions of old Beijing, including social interactions, childbirth, birthdays, marriages, and funerals. In addition to the festivals mentioned above, there are also customs that belong to this category. This means that we must not only learn about the new but also understand the old. This will greatly benefit us in the future when applying etiquette and adapting to today's society. Remember, when it comes to etiquette, it is neither to be blindly followed nor to be taken lightly. It is essential to strike the right balance. Who to meet, how to speak, and what to say—there is a lot to learn here. Don’t underestimate a simple greeting or a gesture during a first meeting. If handled poorly, it can ruin the first impression, and it will be difficult to change it later. If you’re unsure, it’s better to err on the side of caution. After all, as everyone knows, "too many cooks spoil the broth," but "too much etiquette is never wrong."