Why Love the Person You Love: Unveiling the Secret of

Author: (English) Susie Mallyn
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Publish Date: 2005-01-01
Features: Bestselling book in Europe and America, reveals the mysteries of love at first sight, three classic face types influence who you fall in love with, DIY your and your partner's love index. Are you the one destined for you? You can find the answer through observation. If you have a partner, then find out which of the three love categories you belong to, and how it affects your relationship. If you are single, use this simple technique to find your perfect match and love. When a person meets their dream lover, miracles happen! Why do you fall in love with this person, even though he (she) is far from your ideal dream lover? Is his (her) face similar to yours or your close relatives from childhood? Carefully observe the two people who fall in love at first sight, and their facial features are very likely to be the same or similar, which is what we often call "spouse resemblance." Why You Love the One You Love meticulously analyzes the faces of 40 international celebrities, revealing their remarkable love through face reading. Everyone has their own half. "How did she see him, or how did he see her?" The three love categories revealed in this book, which convey information visually, are seeking to explain how a person "sees" another person. This book categorizes love at first sight into three types: Harmonious Face, Responsive Face, or Kinship Face. These three visual love categories apply to everyone, whether young or old, slim or plump, beautiful or ordinary.
Harmonious Face: Two people with similar facial proportions have a Harmonious Face. Their faces have three sets of data that are roughly the same: the height of the forehead, the length of the philtrum, and the length of the chin. This is a fuzzy matching of appearance types through mathematical methods. When these three sets of data are roughly the same, the proportions of their facial contours will be similar, which is determined by the shape of their skull. However, it is important to note that these couples or lovers with a Harmonious Face do not necessarily look alike. Unless they also have a Responsive Face on top of the Harmonious Face. Notable figures: Prince Charles and Diana.
Responsive Face: Two people with a Responsive Face look very similar to each other. This is what people often call "spouse resemblance." They look alike because three important parts of their faces are very similar. These three important parts refer to the upper eyelid line (the line where the upper eyelashes grow, one of the positions where eyeliner is usually applied), the upper lip line (the curve at the edge of the pink lips, also one of the positions where lip liner is applied, usually close to the "beard area" for men), and the eyebrows (for eyebrows, what matters is not the upper or lower line, but the overall shape or the range of curvature and extension, which is what is usually referred to as "eyebrow shape"). Notable figures: Beckham and Victoria.
Kinship Face: Kinship Face is very different from the above two. This type of face is not based on the similarity of both parties' facial features but on one person's feeling toward the other—it is one-sided. Moreover, this one-sided feeling is not much related to the other person's appearance but rather to how their appearance and behavior trigger a sense of intimacy in you. For example, when two strangers meet, A feels that B is very similar to one of their close relatives, and thus is attracted to them. And here, the concept of "relative" is not entirely determined by blood relations but rather by any female who has developed an intimate connection with A. Couples with a Kinship Face always begin with one person being deeply attracted to the other and desiring their love. Moreover, at the beginning, the person being loved often does not feel the same level of attraction. The woman being loved may eventually be conquered by these feelings, while the man is more resistant. Notable figures: Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinsky.
In addition, this book also believes in an Integrated Face, which combines all three of the above characteristics. Regardless, the book interestingly tells us how we fall in love. The word "love" has different meanings for different people. When one person says "I love you" to another, the meaning the speaker intends to convey through the word "love" may be worlds apart from what the listener expects to gain from it. "Love" encompasses everything from the unconditional love parents give to their children to emotions, habits, passion, physical desire, emotional dependence, and more. Although I have categorized love based on visual differences and named these three categories "Love Categories," they are actually just "Attraction Categories." People hope that the initial attraction can be the beginning of lasting love, and there is nothing wrong with that.