Nurture middle age

Author: Wang Changyuan
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Publish Date: 2006-11-01
Features: Only when one reaches middle age does one realize that one should not love what cannot be loved, that what will not come will never come, that one should not think about what should not be thought, that one must never seek what cannot be sought, that one should not speak of what cannot be spoken, and that one must resolutely not do what should not be done. In middle age, one thinks more and gets less agitated; one becomes calmer and less restless; one becomes more tolerant and less envious; one becomes more benevolent and less hateful. In middle age, having experienced the hardships of life and the vicissitudes of time, one becomes more mature and strong, acquiring the ability to distinguish right from wrong. In middle age, one learns to think calmly when facing situations, often asking oneself "why" more, no longer acting on impulse, and being able to control one's emotions. One understands that life is unpredictable, and that anything can happen in life. One realizes that decisions made in the heat of emotion are more than 90% unsuitable. Middle age is the most beautiful season of life, and we should fully enjoy the various pleasures of life, the purification of the soul, and the elevation of our. Treating middle age kindly does not mean that middle age is a delicate age that needs careful protection, nor does it mean that one will automatically become mature and wise upon entering middle age. Middle age is merely an important reminder in life, warning you not to squander your life and deplete your energy too easily. More energy should be devoted to creating your own brilliance.