First time having sex with girlfriend, can't get hard, what to do

Patient's question:

I am a virgin and have never had sexual intercourse with my girlfriend. I couldn't get hard the first time. After a day, I took Viagra and was able to get hard and ejaculate. Do I need to see a doctor?

Doctor's answer:

Hello, it is very normal for people to feel mentally tense during their first sexual experience. However, if similar issues persist even after gaining sexual experience, it indicates a problem with the kidney's sealing function. Additionally, frequent sexual activity and excessive masturbation can easily deplete kidney yang. When the kidneys are not firm and the essence gate is relaxed, it leads to the situation you are currently experiencing. It is recommended not to worry too much and to adjust your mindset to avoid excessive tension.

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