Patient's question:
I am 38 years old this year, and I have always had symptoms of premature ejaculation in sexual matters, unable to satisfy my wife's needs. She feels "hateful towards her husband." One noon, I was alone at home taking a nap when suddenly I had a desire. So, I revisited the "Five Hits One" technique I learned in school. That evening, my wife came home and insisted on me being intimate with her. Hey, you won't believe it, but I unexpectedly lasted for 5 minutes during intercourse, and my wife was extremely satisfied. What could be the reason for this?Doctor's answer:
Most healthy men, if not controlled, will reach orgasm within 2-3 minutes of thrusting in the vagina. If foreplay is insufficient, women are unlikely to achieve orgasm.Self-pleasure is a very natural physiological phenomenon, and post-marital self-pleasure can also compensate for insufficient sexual activity between partners. More importantly, self-pleasure can, to some extent, help men alleviate the pressure of premature ejaculation and support the development of sexual ability.
The stimulation of the penis during self-pleasure is greater than that during vaginal intercourse. Moreover, it is a personal act that allows for better relaxation of control and maximum release. After self-pleasure, a man's penis head sensitivity is significantly reduced. Additionally, men who have engaged in self-pleasure generally do not rush into intercourse and prefer to gradually build arousal during foreplay, allowing them to better give their partner kisses, caresses, and other forms of stimulation, ultimately achieving a harmonious connection.
However, post-marital self-pleasure should be moderate and not excessive, as excess can be harmful.