Patient's question:
When I have sex with my wife, she always has very little moisture down there. It's always difficult for me to enter, and it feels very dry inside. Every time we need to use lubricant. I've heard that women usually have a lot of moisture down there, and some even spray water during climax. It's possible that I'm not doing it well enough.What kind of help do I need: How can I make the woman spray water?
Doctor's answer:
After receiving a certain amount of sexual stimulation, the appearance of female lubrication marks the entry of a woman into the excitement phase of the sexual response cycle. As the duration of stimulation continues or the intensity increases, the amount of lubrication can also increase continuously, even forming a fluid flow that flows along the perineum towards the anal area. In the past, it was believed that lubrication came from the Bartholin's glands, but it has now been confirmed that the secretion of these glands is not significant, and at most, they can only lubricate the vaginal opening. During sexual arousal, the vaginal walls become congested, and if the congestion continues to intensify, a large amount of altered plasma leaks out from the vaginal epithelium. These secretory cells can secrete "cervical mucus," the amount of which is primarily influenced by the menstrual cycle, increasing as it gets closer to ovulation. However, under strong sexual arousal, its secretion can also increase. This secretion is slightly alkaline and has a mild neutralizing effect on the vaginal acidic environment, thereby protecting sperm as they safely pass through the cervix into the uterine cavity and creating favorable conditions for fertilization.However, the expression of sexual pleasure varies from person to person. It's unnecessary to pursue a standard—what matters most is mutual satisfaction and happiness. Before sexual activity, it's essential to engage in more foreplay to increase lubrication and promote smoothness. It's also recommended to adopt the male-on-top position, as it can provide more stimulation to the clitoris, making it easier to reach orgasm and enhance pleasure. The clitoris is the most sensitive area in a woman's body and should be well-utilized. When necessary, you can try combining visual and auditory stimulation to add a bit of (romance/).
A woman's sexual desire is closely related to her sexual experience and exposure. Generally, it takes time to gradually appreciate and understand as sexual experience becomes more abundant.