Patient's question:
I got married to my husband after dating for two years. Before the wedding, I always thought he hadn't had sex because of his overly traditional mindset. But after getting married, I found out he was actually frigid. Every time I wanted to be intimate with him, he would show frustration, even disgust towards the act. However, he is indeed very caring towards me in other aspects and always thinks about my well-being.What kind of help do I need: How long can an asexual marriage last?
Doctor's answer:
Friends can also stay together forever. Then, if a couple treats each other as friends, there will only be the "marriage" aspect of the relationship. The essence of marriage will be lost. If a normal person loses the "sexual" aspect of marriage, the relationship will likely end, and they will break free from the constraints of marriage.If your partner is truly unhealthy, and if he agrees at this point that you should go your separate ways, you don’t necessarily have to divorce him. Giving him a complete marital structure can also be a form of comfort. If he is a normal person, since there is no love between you, only a faint bond of marital affection, when you cannot convince him to meet your expectations, you are completely free to seek a new life and new love for the sake of love.