Patient's question:
Hello doctor:I have been married to my husband for four years. He has a relatively high libido, and our sexual life is quite frequent. Every time he enters and moves a few times before climaxing. Is this considered premature ejaculation? Moreover, in the four years we have been together, I have never once been the one to initiate such requests towards him. It is always him who acts impulsively, and many times I don’t feel anything and it just passes. Sometimes when he touches me with his hands, he gets aroused too, but I never tell him how to make me feel comfortable. Am I considered frigid? We have been married for four years, and I always feel embarrassed to talk to him about such matters.
Doctor's answer:
Generally speaking, it is considered normal for a healthy male to reach ejaculation within 2 to 6 minutes after the penis is inserted into the vagina. A duration longer than 2 minutes does not indicate premature ejaculation, and I believe everyone knows that sexual apathy can cause significant harm to patients. Therefore, it is important to seek treatment as soon as possible. In daily life, attention should be paid to dietary issues, with a focus on light and nutritious meals, avoiding stimulating foods. Additionally, regular follow-up visits may be necessary when needed.