Patient's question:
I have a normal sex life with my wife, but I often have difficulty getting erect with other women. What could be the reason?Doctor's answer:
Hello: Having sex with your wife normally indicates that there is no physiological problem. However, having sex with a stranger or with someone familiar but not a regular sexual partner can make you feel guilty, scared, excited, anxious, and eager to finish quickly, which can easily lead to psychological erectile dysfunction. Although I do not approve of extramarital sex, I can tell you a simple method that might help improve the situation: First, choose a place that is absolutely safe (where neither of you will meet anyone you know), and it is best not to drink alcohol (alcohol can worsen feelings of excitement and tension). Allow enough time for foreplay (it is best to persuade the other person to engage in mutual oral sex), and then you can proceed to the act of love.