Patient's question:
Detailed medical condition and consultation purpose: A long history of masturbation, experiencing premature ejaculation during intercourse for seven years since marriage, and the wife has not been pregnant. Recently, I was diagnosed with benign prostatic hyperplasia. I am in great pain. What should I do? Desperately seeking expert help!Doctor's answer:
Hello, based on the current description of the situation, it is recommended to actively treat the primary disease. You can refer to the following materials:General Treatment Methods for Premature Ejaculation
The stimulus threshold is like a "threshold." When it is too low, any stimulus can cross it and cause a tissue response, resulting in excessive tissue excitability. When it is too high, rarely any stimulus can cross it, and the tissue rarely responds, leading to low tissue excitability. Therefore, the key to treating premature ejaculation lies in how to raise this "threshold," i.e., increasing the stimulus threshold. Generally, we use the following methods for treatment.
Both partners participate in the treatment. Education on sexual physiology is provided to both partners to alleviate mental tension and eliminate fear. Some men may experience one or two episodes of premature ejaculation after marriage due to unusual excitement, which is inevitable. Do not assume a serious illness has developed because of occasional premature ejaculation. As long as sexual issues are handled correctly and sexual life is regulated, premature ejaculation can be completely avoided.
The pain caused by premature ejaculation affects both partners. If the female partner's sexual desire is not satisfied for a long time or if she is unable to conceive, she may develop some dissatisfaction, disdain, or even hostility toward her partner. Therefore, the female partner should recognize that this inability to control it is due to psychological factors or other diseases. If the male partner experiences premature ejaculation, the female partner should show extra care, tenderness, and emotional support, which can help the male partner recover more quickly.
Change sexual positions. For example, if the female-on-top position is adopted, the female partner performs vigorous friction on the sexual organs while the male partner is in a passive position,