Patient's question:
I am 37 years old and remarried with no children. Before, I never felt like I had any issues, and our sex life was quite harmonious. However, when he stimulates my clitoris, it not only doesn't bring pleasure but also causes significant discomfort. My vagina also doesn't contract—it never did before, and I've never experienced what is called an orgasm. My previous husband had a large penis, and it felt very tight, especially during ejaculation, but with him, I can't feel any ejaculation at all, and it's not tight either.1. Isn't the clitoris the most sensitive part of a woman's body? Why don't I feel anything and instead experience discomfort? Is it a medical issue?
2. Is it also abnormal that my vagina doesn't contract?
Doctor's answer:
It is recommended to first check if there is a possibility of gynecological inflammation, whether there are any psychological concerns, and whether there is a lack of foreplay. Additionally, it is essential to engage in more caressing before sexual activity to increase the secretion of love juice and promote lubrication. It is also suggested to adopt the male-on-top female position, as it can provide more stimulation to the clitoris, making it easier to reach climax and enhance pleasure. The clitoris is the most sensitive area for women and should be well-utilized. When necessary, you can try combining visual and auditory stimulation to add a bit of (flavor/romance).A woman's libido is greatly related to her sexual experience and experience. Generally, it gradually becomes more apparent as sexual experience becomes more (rich/experienced). However, some women may never experience climax throughout their lives, while others may experience it right from the beginning. Bad mood also has an impact, and individual differences are significant.