Patient's question:
I am 26 years old and have a history of masturbation for six or seven years. Last December, I wanted to have sex with a woman, which was my first time having sex. But when I put on a condom, I came. Later, I felt very nervous, and then I didn't have sex anymore. I felt it was the consequence of masturbation, so I then controlled the frequency of masturbation.Doctor's answer:
Hello! Based on your description and the examination provided, young people often lack experience when they first start having sexual relations. They tend to be overly tense and excited, which can easily lead to issues like impotence and premature ejaculation, resulting in dissatisfaction during sex. This is a very normal situation. This is because when just beginning sexual activity, it is easy to be influenced by the surrounding environment and psychological factors. Although your examination revealed mild prostatitis, it is not severe. Considering all factors, my advice is as follows:1. For intimate relations between couples, mindset is very important. Negative psychological factors or fluctuations can often have a negative impact on intimate life. A single instance of dissatisfaction or failure can make men lack confidence in their next performance, which in turn increases inner tension. Mental stress, anxiety, distraction, or an unsatisfactory marital relationship can all inhibit the excitability and signal transmission of nerve cells, leading to sexual dysfunction. It is recommended to relax and not be overly tense.
When seeking medical treatment, it is essential to go to a formal hospital. I know a few hospitals:
- The First Affiliated Hospital of Soochow University
- Nanjing Drum Tower Hospital
- The Second Affiliated Hospital of Nanjing Medical University