Patient's question:
1) I have been with my girlfriend for many years, but we have always been in a relationship. Recently, I've been thinking a lot about being intimate with her, but I also want to preserve her virginity until our wedding night. However, recently, I lost control accidentally and gently tried it. Later, when she said it hurt, I pulled out, and I noticed her hymen had slightly stretched but not broken. Is this harmful to her?2) I did a circumcision myself. I used to masturbate~ probably for more than five years. But recently, during one session (I didn't fully enter, only halfway, and stopped when she said it hurt), it became tight.
Doctor's answer:
The state of sexual life is closely related to the sexual abilities, sexual psychology, and emotional conditions of both spouses. Sexual disharmony is sometimes the main reason for marital discord. Therefore, whether it is harmonious or not is influenced by both objective reasons and subjective factors, making sexual harmony between couples full of variables. Sometimes it is inherently disharmonious, while in other cases, it starts harmonious but later faces emotional issues.