Patient's question:
Please ask the doctor, my husband always suffers from premature ejaculation during intercourse. What should I do? What medicine can be taken to treat it?Doctor's answer:
Hello: The following methods can be tried: Both partners participate in the treatment together. Education on sexual physiology and other aspects for both partners can help alleviate mental tension and eliminate fear. For some men, experiencing one or two instances of premature ejaculation after marriage due to excitement is not uncommon. It's important not to assume a serious condition has developed due to occasional premature ejaculation. With a proper attitude towards sex and mastering regular sexual patterns, premature ejaculation can be completely avoided.The suffering caused by premature ejaculation affects both partners. If a woman's sexual desires are not satisfied for a long time or if she is unable to conceive, it may lead to dissatisfaction, disdain, or even hostility towards her partner. Therefore, women should recognize that this inability to control sexual response is due to psychological factors or other medical conditions. When a man experiences premature ejaculation, the woman should show extra affection, understanding, and emotional support, which can help him recover more quickly.
Change sexual positions. For example, adopting the female-on-top position allows the woman to perform vigorous friction on the sexual organs while the man remains in a passive state, with relaxed muscles and lower excitement, enabling both partners to reach climax simultaneously. Alternatively, the side position can be used to avoid intense hip movements and reduce blood flow diversion from the pelvic area to the lower limbs. Due to reduced effort and smaller movement, the man's excitement builds more slowly, helping to delay ejaculation.
Choose the timing of sexual activity. For instance, having sex in the morning after waking up can provide energy; sleeping first before sex can avoid tension. After an initial ejaculation, having sex again that night will definitely extend the duration. Alternatively, masturbating first and then having sex after the refractory period has passed can also achieve this effect.