Patient's question:
My mentality is to think during sex, "Am I doing okay?" After thinking this, I really lay down, and then the person starts having negative thoughts. My deep sleep and diet are both good; my urination and defecation are also normal. The only thing is that I have had skin problems for several years. What kind of help do I need: What is sexual dysfunction?Doctor's answer:
There are two main reasons for sexual dysfunction: One is a lack of parental love, leading to a sense of loneliness, where sexual activity remains at the "narcissistic" stage, deriving comfort and enjoyment solely from the act itself. The other is exposure to intense stimuli, such as when he was a minor and was solely responsible for caring for a bedridden older adult of the opposite sex, including assisting with their personal needs. In his mind, this associated the male reproductive organ with dirtiness. As an adult, he can interact normally with others but fears seeing the reproductive organ and experiences distress during sexual activity.